Is It Healthy To Have Sex Toys In Your Relationship?
Oftentimes when we talk about sex, people feel that assistance is evil, akin to a sin. However, if you have poor eyesight and wear contacts or glasses, is that a sin? Is wearing a knee brace a sin? So, if you use some kind of assistance to support your privates, is that a sin? The Bible states that the bedroom is undefiled, which means whatever you choose to do in the bedroom is between you and your spouse. There's a study that 70% of women need some extra type of stimulation in order to climax, so they may use a sex toy to aid in that. Some couples use sex toys to have multiple orgasms. Sex toys can make the bedroom interesting and fun as long as you're doing it with your spouse instead of by yourself.
Now, not everyone does it at the level that others do it. Everyone is different. Some research states that some try sex toys to spice things up, but it's interesting to hear that 77% of couples would simply rather change positions. It's important to change things up in the bedroom; if this is the last person you'll be having sex with for the rest of your life, spice things up. Keep it exciting because you don't want it to become mundane. Right now, people are seeing sex more than ever before and are constantly stimulated by it. So, you have to be open to new things. If you're not interested in using a tool to help you, work on being creative instead.
"According to a study, 82% of those surveyed make the effort to keep their sex life as exciting as possible. Of that, 52% of those surveyed say they still do while the rest feel content with their sex lives." From that study, the majority of people said they use sex toys to keep things spicy in their life.
"Couples who use sex toys are better communicators." It promotes more communication between couples because, before you pull out a vibrator or any kind of sex toy, you need to have a conversation about it. Even when you buy the toy, you should have a conversation about it. It prompts you to talk about your likes and dislikes, what stimulates you, etc.
"Over 60% of couples think more foreplay is the way to go." If a person knows what they're doing and how to arouse the different areas of their partner's body, not just the genitals, then this can be just as effective as a toy. For women especially, it's a mental thing and getting their mind into a place of letting go and being vulnerable in the bedroom instead of thinking about a bunch of different things. As men get older, it's a similar situation where they have to focus a lot more. Most of the sexual process doesn't happen in your private parts but rather in your head. If you don't recognize that, you could sabotage yourself from having a good sexual experience.
The important thing is to have good and healthy sex. If that means using toys, then use toys! If you choose not to use them, then make sure you're both enjoying it, doing it right, and orgasming. Both partners should climax, so make sure to discuss with each other different ways to get to that point.
