1. Security
If a woman can’t trust you, thinks you’re disloyal, and/or feels like she can’t be safe with you, then this will affect everything that’s valuable to her in the relationship. A secure woman won’t need to constantly think about what you’re doing, so she’ll be more open to giving you almost anything.
2. Communication
If she feels like you don’t care about her thoughts and feelings on any subject, then she’ll think you’re not interested in her as a person, which can be a big issue for many women. It’s important to act as if you’re still dating, even if you’re married. This is because, when dating, you invest more time in communicating with her because you’re trying to win her over. Having a lack of energy to communicate is a key reason why many relationships break down.
3. Not Wanting to Provide
Nowadays, a woman doesn’t need a man to be the breadwinner while she stays at home cooking and cleaning. However, that doesn’t mean she wants a man who isn’t as invested as she is to make ends meet. If she’s working hard, she wants to feel like you’re working hard as well. You must act as a team and be willing to put in the work to provide for the family.
4. Vision
Most women want to know where the relationship is going. If she feels like there’s no vision, then she’ll usually create her own. If this happens, you’ll have two separate visions – hers and yours – and this eventually leads to division, which can lead to divorce. It’s critical for you to set a plan for your goals and dreams, even if you’re not currently able to meet them. For a woman, seeing that her husband is motivated and knows what he wants is crucial.
5. Sex
Women love to make love and they want to know that the man they’re with is attracted to them. They like physical touch that makes them feel sexy, wanted, and attractive. However, some women leave either because of a lack of sex or because they’re not satisfied in the bedroom. It’s up to both the husband and wife to communicate their likes, dislikes, what’s working and not working, etc.
6. Feeling Alone
There’s nothing worse than feeling like you’re not being supported or that you don’t matter in the relationship. If you don’t support her in what she does or engage in the things she likes, then this can feel isolating. When dating, you’re more likely to show interest in what she’s doing and perhaps even join in on them whether you like them or not. Yet, once you’re in a committed relationship, you forego those things because you’ve already “caught” her. Be sure to keep that enthusiasm in her interests so that she feels like you’re both in it together.
7. She’s Already Mentally Left
Most women will have emotionally checked out of the relationship long before she actually tells you “I want to leave.” That’s why it’s important to acknowledge your spouse if you see that she’s not acting right, treating you the same, or loving you the same way as before. These are all big red flags to stop, have a conversation, and tell her how important she is to you. Otherwise, she’ll be more likely to both mentally and physically check out of the relationship by seeking love somewhere else.
Whether you are experiencing challenges with communication, sex, trust, or just want to give your relationship some much needed attention to ensure you are both in a good place, we want to help. Contact us today.
