Why relationships are so hard
Relationships are hard. You have to constantly communicate, be thoughtful of other people’s feelings, and always be on your best behavior. It’s a lot of work! But why are relationships so hard?
Here are 6 common reasons:
1. We’re all imperfect.
No one is perfect, and that includes our romantic partners. We all have our flaws, and learning to accept each other’s imperfections is one of the hardest parts of being in a relationship.
2. We’re all unique individuals.
We all come from different backgrounds, with different values and beliefs. Learning to compromise and respect each other’s differences is essential in any relationship.
3. Relationships take effort.
They don’t just happen; they take work. Both partners need to be equally invested in making the relationship work. Otherwise, it’s easy for resentments to build up over time.
4. Relationships require communication.
We’re not mind readers, and even the best relationships require constant communication in order to function properly. Miscommunications are bound to happen, but it’s important to talk things out and resolve conflicts in a constructive way.
5. Relationships change over time.
No relationship is ever static; they will inevitably change as both partners grow and change over time. It’s important to be flexible and adaptable in order to keep the relationship strong through the years.
6. Relationships are risky.
Anytime we open ourselves up to another person, we’re taking a risk. We could get hurt, we could be disappointed, or we could end up getting our heart broken. But taking that risk is essential if we want to experience the intimacy and connection that comes from being in a close relationship.
Relationships are hard, but they’re also incredibly rewarding. The effort you put into making them work is worth it when you find that special someone you can truly connect with.
Whether you are experiencing challenges with communication, sex, trust, or just want to give your relationship some much needed attention to ensure you are both in a good place, we want to help.
